Sunday, August 23, 2009


RulEs of brEak up!!

stEp 1 >talk about itIt's good dat u & yr BF has at least talked about it.The fact dat both of u
agreed to t8 a br8 means dat u r feeling proactive about yr relationship.Br8 usually
signal change n admitting dat there is a problem direct to fix it.Regardless of how it
ends,movement to change signifies d wish of something better..


stEp 2 >know the T&CIt may sound like a business deal,but u really need to clarify d
"rules".Even if both of u hv rules not to contact each other during d br8,u need to be
clear about everything..


stEp 3 >wait it out,fill yr time & re-evaluateTime out may jz mean time out!! He may jz need
to be with his fwen / even alone.Give him n yr self time. While on the br8,feel free as
much as possible.So dat u dont spend idle time worrying about thhe "what if`s ?!!!" T8
this time to re-evaluate yr relationship..

Monday, February 9, 2009

How to LovE~

StEp 1: Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone
that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it
andare willing to do anything for that special person.

StEp 2: Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or
attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are.
Realize howthey could also love you back just as well.

StEp 3: Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is love
at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of
others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance
your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that
person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who
you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.


StEp 4: Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you.
It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize
that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you, do not expect to be loved
back in exactly the same way.


StEp 5: Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater
appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.

wHat is LovE ?!!


Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection[1] and
attachment
.The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from
generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. The word love is both a verb and a noun. Love is not a
single feeling but an emotion built from two or more feelings. Anything vital to us creates more than one
feeling, and we also have feelings about our feelings (and thoughts about our feelings)[1]. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to
consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
As an abstract concept, love usually refers to a deep, ineffable feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate
desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual emotional closeness of familial and platonic love[2] to
the profound oneness or devotion of religious love.[3] Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of
interpersonal relationships
and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common
themes in the creative arts.


Sunday, February 8, 2009

10 fact u must kNow aBout Boy


1.adalah biasa bila lelaki cemburu bila anda selalu sebut nama lelaki laen depan
diaorg
2.kebanyakan lelaki cukup tewasdengan air mata perempuan tambahan

perempuan yang amat dia sayangi
3.bila lelaki meminati seseorang wanita.seharusnya wanita itu harus memberi

hint dahulu kerana lelaki tidak memahami bahasa tubuh wanita
4.sehebat,semacho n seromeo mana pown lelaki 2 dia tetap setia pada yang 1

dan paling istimewa yg selebihnya kawan semata
5.bila lelaki tu kata 'hmm,tengoklah dulu'.. tu bermakna dia kurana bersetuju

dengan pendapat anda
6.bila lelaki cakap direct to d point,seharusnya perempuan memahami bahawa

dia mahu berterus terang
7.bila sesuatu perhubungan tu terputus di pertengahan jalan janan ingat

lelaki
tak bersedih cuma dia tak nak menunjukkan je disebabkn ego diaorg..
8.kebanyakan lelaki yang desperate datang dari sekolah lelaki
9.kebanyakan lelaki tadak mengetahui perasaan sebenar perempuan..
10.lelaki bukanlah makhluk yang sempurna yang korang harapkan..korang kene

engat dorang hanya manuusia biasa yang sentiasa melakukan kesilapan..

BliNd LovE~


1.cinta itu buta..
- cnta itu buta bila u'all sggup srahkn pe sje..tp u'all kne egt jgk agame kte ade btas2 nye...

2.cinta itu buta..
-cinta itu buta smpia sgup memudaratkn dri u'all sndri..e.g:bnuh dri.. egt tuhan k!! jgn wat tndkan yg melulu jgn mnyesal kmudian..nsi klu da jd bbur da x bley ptah blik..

3.cinta itu buta
-cinta itu buta wjar djdikn pdoman ble ksh syg antra 2 rmaje trpelihara n mltakkn had2 btasnnya......

4.cinta itu buta..
-cinta itu buta jika trllu ekowtkn prasaan dri 2..jgn trllu ekwtkn prasaan 2..fkir gune otak jgn gune aty dlm pkra niy..

5.cinta itu buta..
-cinta itu buta bla ayt2 cnta trucap kt bbir je tp x wat..u'all kne egt cnte smata x akn kmna2 klu x de pngorbanan..



hkikatnye u'all kne sntiase positif..fkir cinta itu akn mmbwa u'all kehdpan,lbih tabah mnjlni khdupan bkn tuk mnyushkn dri u'all sndri..

>HoW to gEt yOuR pRiNcE cHarmiNg


1.you must not 2 picky..
-u'all jgnlh mmlih sgt..u'all kne egt yg u'all 2 bknnye perfect sgt always nk yg perfect jer..
2.you must brave..
-ble u'all da jmpe prince charming 2 knelh bg hint dlu.. llki niy kdg2 x fhm bhase tbuh kte
3.dress up
-kte prlu jge pnmpln kte..llki x ske pd prmpuan yg x rti jge kbrshan dri..so,kte knelh sntiase wngi..tpi egtt jgn trllu over plak,kdg2 ley wat llki mnymph pown ade.
4.stop pretending
-u'all jgnlh pura2 jd owg len plak..just be yourself k!!
5.perbndngan..
-jgn sskali u'all wat prbndngan antra ex boy dlu n boy yg u'll glekn skang niy..sbb ini akn mnyushkn u'all lg tok mncri prince charming u'all..n ini jgk akn mmbuatkn u'all tregt2 kn ex yg dlu 2...u'ull kne trime hkikat antr korg da x de pape agy..
6.always smile..
- llki ske pd pmpuan yg ske trsnyum,happy go lucky,but not gedik k!!